Chapter 16: The Personality Styles // Part 2
Welcome to the sixteenth edition of Behind The Drapes—your exclusive, all-access pass to everything going on behind the scenes at My Authentic Colors. This isn’t just about fashion; it’s about uncovering who you are and expressing that with confidence and joy. Whether you're a longtime color enthusiast or just beginning your style journey, I’m so glad you’re here.
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Today’s Topic: The Personality Styles // Aristocrat
Over the next several weeks inside Behind the Drapes, we’re diving deeper into one of my favorite layers of personal style—the energetic code behind how we dress, decorate, and even carry ourselves.
Each of us holds a unique style identity that is deeply rooted in either yin or yang energy. It’s not about gender—it’s about the energetic expression that naturally radiates from you. Your personal style identity is made up of one of six key archetypes: three yin and three yang.
The Yang Energetic Codes:
Dramatic
Aristocrat
Natural
The Yin Energetic Codes:
Classic
Creative
Romantic
Over the next few weeks, we’ll be unpacking these archetypes in more depth. This is something I guide my clients through during a personalized styling consultation (coming very soon!). This week, let’s go one tier down in terms of the amount of Yang someone has and talk about the Aristocrat/Elegant.
The Aristocrat
Refined Power. Elevated Presence. Understated Authority.
The Aristocrat embodies a more restrained, regal version of yang energy. Where the Dramatic charges into a room, the Aristocrat glides in with impeccable posture, quiet confidence, and an undeniable aura of distinction. Their energy is controlled, curated, and captivating—think poised elegance with a sense of high status that doesn’t need to be announced.
The Physical Form
Aristocrats often possess a regal, dignified silhouette. Their features may be symmetrical and refined, neither overly sharp nor overly soft. There’s a sculpted stillness to them. While they are still tall (height is still Yang), their commanding presence often comes more from their composure and elegance than from dramatic proportions.
TIP: If you are 5’8 or above, your yang is automatically going to be the Dramatic or the Aristocrat because of your height.
Look for elongated limbs, a long neck, a graceful frame, and a refined facial structure—often with strong eyebrows, high cheekbones, and a "high-end" aura. There’s something inherently polished about them, even when dressed down.
But as with all energetic codes, it’s less about the exact features and more about the vibe: the Aristocrat reads as exclusive, high-caliber, discerning.
Personality Traits
Aristocrats are discerning, deliberate, and deeply self-respecting. They value quality over quantity, and their natural rhythm is measured, intentional, and high-level. They are not about chasing trends or attention—they’re more likely to be curators than creators, and they wield influence through taste, intellect, and presence.
They may be described as intimidating, not because they’re aggressive, but because their boundaries are clear, and their energy doesn't chase approval. Aristocrats know their worth and are most comfortable in leadership or advisory roles where their strategic minds and elevated standards are valued.
They desire to be seen as refined, respected, and high-status, not flashy, but always above the fray.
Style Preferences
Aristocrats are drawn to timeless luxury with a modern edge. They favor tailored silhouettes, structured elegance, and restrained drama. Think quiet luxury—not loud labels, but unmistakable quality. Their style reflects cultivated taste—sophisticated, never trendy, and always intentional.
Expect to see:
Fine tailoring – blazers, coats, and trousers that fit like they were made for them
Luxurious fabrics – cashmere, silk, high-quality wool, mohair, fine tweeds
Classic prints and textures – pinstripes, houndstooth, subtle jacquards, leather accents
Sculpted minimalism – clean lines with elevated details (e.g., a structured collar, elegant draping, or a perfect pleat)
Accessories – intentional, minimal, and refined. They prefer fine jewelry over costume, and may choose one exquisite piece to wear rather than layering.
Color palette? Rich neutrals, navies, plums, deep greens, burgundy, charcoal, ivory, and the occasional gold or sapphire accent. Muted jewel tones and deep, elegant shades speak to their desire for impact through refinement rather than flash.
Their wardrobe often reads as editorial meets old money—impeccable, intelligent, and forever in style.
Home + Environment
An Aristocrat’s home is a true reflection of their elevated standards, timeless taste, and commanding presence. Whether it’s a countryside estate, a historic manor, or a stately apartment, the space exudes a sense of legacy, refinement, and quiet power.
One of the most distinct features? Oversized, substantial furniture. Nothing in an Aristocrat’s home feels flimsy or temporary. Their sofas are deep and tailored, their armchairs large and sculptural, and their tables—whether dining or accent—are often heavy, carved, or antique. Everything has weight, both physically and visually. The scale of their furniture reflects their identity: grand, enduring, and unapologetically established.
You’ll see:
High-backed chairs and deep, structured sofas upholstered in velvet, linen, or leather
Large bookcases filled with curated selections—not cluttered, but cultivated
Impressive dining tables, often built to host long, formal gatherings
Oversized headboards or four-poster beds in the bedroom, commanding attention
Rich materials like dark wood, brass, marble, and aged metals
Curtains that pool on the floor, artwork that fills entire walls
The overall layout leans toward spacious and grand, but not cold—rather, it’s intentional and layered, built for legacy. Their home is a sanctuary where heritage meets discernment.
Even in modern environments, Aristocrats tend to choose large-scale, architectural pieces over anything dainty.
Even pets can reflect the energetic code—and for the Aristocrat, their animal companions tend to mirror their refined, dignified, and curated essence.
Aristocrats don’t usually collect pets on a whim. If they have one, it’s intentional—elegant, well-groomed, and quietly captivating. The kind of pet that blends seamlessly into a beautifully designed space but still turns heads because of its presence.
Think:
A Russian Blue or Burmese cat—graceful, poised, independent, and luxurious without being flashy.
A Whippet or Afghan Hound—regal in movement, slender and composed, with an air of old-world refinement.
A Standard Poodle—stylish, intelligent, and perfectly maintained.
A Bird of paradise, like a Macaw or Cockatoo—unexpected, elegant, and slightly exotic.
Even koi fish in a pristine garden pond or a Persian chinchilla cat kept immaculately brushed—this is the kind of quiet luxury the Aristocrat embodies.
If they don’t have pets, it’s often because their lifestyle is structured, travel-heavy, or highly curated, and they won’t compromise the care or aesthetic alignment of their home. If an animal is part of their life, it becomes an extension of their taste.
Aristocrat pets are low-drama, high-impact—just like their humans. Not overly needy, not chaotic, but sophisticated companions that match their elevated lifestyle.
When the Aristocrats Doubt Themselves
The deepest wound of the Aristocrat archetype is feeling like they’re too reserved, too particular, too much in their standards. But this is exactly where their quiet power lies. The Aristocrat isn’t here to conform or compromise—they’re here to elevate the room just by being in it.
When an Aristocrat fully steps into their identity, they become magnetic in the most effortless way. Their style whispers luxury, their presence demands respect, and their life? A masterclass in grace, discernment, and intentional living.
Next week, we’ll explore The Natural—a relaxed, grounded expression of yang energy that brings ease, warmth, and unshakeable confidence to personal style.
If you’re curious about which energetic code best expresses your style identity, stay tuned—my 1:1 consultations are opening soon, where we’ll uncover the blueprint that makes you feel most at home in your skin and your clothes.
Until then, Aristocrats—own your standards. Your refined presence reminds the world that excellence doesn’t need to shout.
💖 Swatch This/Scratch That
Welcome to Swatch This / Scratch That. Your weekly scroll through the glossy, the gaudy, and everything in between. I’m serving a mood board of what’s in… and what’s getting cut out. Let’s go! This week, I’m tapping into the Aristocratic Style Personality with its expansive and shadow state sides.
Swatch This:
Refined, Not Reserved
You’re not holding back — you’re holding court. Every gesture, every decision is intentional. You don’t blend in because your essence is built to set the atmosphere. Where others seek attention, you set the tone.
This is not arrogance. This is architected assurance.
Dress the Standard
For you, dressing well is not performance — it’s principle. Tailored lines. Understated opulence. Palettes that speak fluency in nuance and distinction. You don’t chase polish — you are polish.
This isn’t “fake it.” This is foundational alignment. Your wardrobe, like your work, is designed for longevity, not novelty.
Think Legacy, Move with Majesty
You aren’t here to pump out content or chase virality. You’re here to build artifacts of excellence. Things that last. Ideas that endure. You’re not obsessed with being first — you’re obsessed with being formidable.
You don’t ask, “Will this trend?”
You ask, “Will this hold up in 10 years?”
Excellence isn’t elitism — it’s a commitment to depth, discernment, and dignity. The expansive Aristocrat doesn’t seek permission. They offer perspective.
Scratch That:
Reclaim the Throne
The invitation? Re-engage. Release. Refine with purpose — not paralysis.
Let your standards lift others instead of locking you away.
Let your legacy be built in motion, not just in theory.
Let elegance remain a channel — not a cage.
You don’t need to dilute your presence. But you do need to remember: power isn’t in holding back — it’s in knowing exactly when to step forward.
Let others chase applause. You’re here for impact that endures.
Because your brand doesn’t echo the room —
It recalibrates it.
The Gilded Cage
But even refinement has its edges.
When sovereignty calcifies, it becomes separation. Standards can rise so high they isolate. That pursuit of polish? It can delay action. Choke spontaneity. Cloak fear in “not quite ready yet.”
You stop creating, waiting instead for something to be worthy. You withhold brilliance behind the veil of “it’s not perfect.”
Elegance becomes armor.
Discernment becomes dismissiveness.
Grace turns cold.
You stop being clear — and start being unreachable.
What once was gravitas becomes silence. Not the commanding kind — the uncertain kind.
And people begin to misread your stillness as disinterest.
Power Without Performance
You don’t posture. You possess.
A different kind of gravity — the kind that doesn’t pull attention, it commands respect. You walk in and the air changes. People don't always know why. But they feel it.
You move with quiet certainty, because your authority isn’t borrowed — it’s inborn.
Measured words. Curated gestures. A wardrobe that doesn’t scream, but says everything.
You don’t need to prove — you preside.
Not because you’re above, but because you’re anchored.
Tailored lines, architectural silhouettes, fabrics that hold their shape — like you do. Your style isn’t about trend. It’s about testament.
You wear legacy like a second skin.
You don’t chase relevance. You build reverence.
🎨 The Color Connection
This week, we’re moving from the gentle flow of analogous harmony to the bold brilliance of complementary color combinations—palettes built from hues that sit opposite each other on the color wheel. Where analogous colors offer unity and softness, complementary contrast brings energy, drama, and a vibrant sense of balance.
Think of it as color with electricity—a striking interplay instead of a gentle blend. These pairings add visual excitement and emotional intensity, highlighting your seasonal palette with purpose and personality.
🎨 What Is Complementary Color Harmony?
Complementary colors are opposites that attract. Picture blue and orange, red and green, or yellow and purple. While they contrast in hue, they enhance each other when paired—each making the other appear brighter and more dynamic. This high-contrast harmony creates eye-catching looks that are bold yet balanced.
Where analogous colors blend in, complementary combos stand out.
✨ Why It Matters by Season
Every seasonal palette carries its own rhythm—some crave softness and subtlety, while others come alive with contrast and clarity. Complementary color pairings help unlock the vibrance and impact of your palette, allowing you to:
Add dynamic energy to your wardrobe
Highlight your features with bold precision
Create powerful, polished looks with confidence
Let’s dive into how each season can use complementary harmony to amplify its natural contrast, character, and bold beauty.
🍃 SPRING SEASONS – Fresh, Radiant, Uplifting
True Spring
Primrose Yellow • Lilac
Light Spring:
Lemon Chiffon • Wisteria
Warm Spring:
Sunflower Yellow • Warm Purple
Bright Spring:
Lemon Yellow • Bright Iris
🍁 AUTUMN SEASONS – Rich, Earthy, Grounded
True Autumn:
Pureed Pumpkin • Teal Blue
Soft Autumn:
Muted Orange • Hazy Cobalt
Deep Autumn:
Blood Red • Jungle Green
Warm Autumn:
Fiery Red • Kelly Green
🌊 SUMMER SEASONS – Cool, Calm, Romantic
True Summer:
Rouge Red • Slate Green
Light Summer:
Warm Rose • Fairest Jade
Soft Summer:
Flax • Purple Haze
Cool Summer:
Cranberry • Sea Green
❄️ WINTER SEASONS – Bold, Crisp, Dynamic
True Winter:
Ruby • Emerald Green
Bright Winter:
Neon Orange • Bright Turquoise
Deep Winter:
Dark Lemon Yellow • Byzantium
Cool Winter:
Lemon Icing • Lavender
🧠 Color Theory in Practice
Complementary color harmony sparks instant impact.
Think bold pairings, vibrant contrast, and undeniable energy.
🔥 Opposites on the color wheel—like blue and orange, red and green, or purple and yellow—ignite visual drama.
When used intentionally, they create standout moments in your outfit, design, or palette.
This approach is perfect for:
Statement pieces that pop
Color-blocking with edge
Seasonal stories that demand attention
It’s a balance of tension and attraction—dynamic, daring, and unforgettable.
🎨 Next Week in the Color Connection Series: Split-Complementary Magic!
We’ll explore this nuanced take on contrast, where balance meets boldness in three-part harmony. Think of it as complementary’s more flexible, fashion-forward cousin.
Until then, try pairing your favorite hue with its opposite—and let the contrast do the talking. 💥💙💛
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Whether you’ve been thinking about discovering your season or want to refine your color journey, now is the perfect time to treat yourself (and maybe a friend!) to a personalized color experience. Please do not share this code
Thank you for being part of my community—celebrating another year feels even more special with you in it. 💛
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💌 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going
Thanks for spending time Behind The Drapes. I’ve got so much more in store, and I want your input! Do you have a burning-style question? A favorite color combo? A topic you’d love me to cover next? Email me your ideas at info@myauthenticcolors.com—I’m all ears (and full spectrum lighting).
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Until next time, keep shining in your authentic colors. 🌈
With color and care,
Mac Carvalho
CEO, My Authentic Colors
