Chapter 20: The Personality Styles // Part 6
Welcome to the twentieth edition of Behind The Drapes—your exclusive, all-access pass to everything going on behind the scenes at My Authentic Colors. This isn’t just about fashion; it’s about uncovering who you are and expressing that with confidence and joy. Whether you're a longtime color enthusiast or just beginning your style journey, I’m so glad you’re here.
🏡 Studio Updates
🍂 Fall Blowout Sale! 🍂
I'm clearing space for exciting new packages launching in October — and that means big savings for you! For a limited time, enjoy:
📸 Mini Sessions – Only $99 (Reg. $175)
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This sale runs a little longer than usual, but spots will go fast! If you've been thinking about booking, now’s the time. Let’s capture some cozy, golden fall magic together! ✨
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We had the chance to meet the incredible CEO, Maegan, at a recent business summit—and we instantly clicked. Now, we’re teaming up for something truly special. 💥 Models get an exclusive discount for being a part of Mass Fashion Week!
Our event was epic! Thank you to all who came!
We had an amazing time at Glam and Glow! From the stunning setup to the warm, welcoming atmosphere, every detail was perfectly curated. We loved exploring all the beauty, wellness, and self-care offerings—it was the perfect mix of fun, inspiration, and a little indulgence. Already counting down to the next one!
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Head to my website www.myauthenticcolors.com
Click on the Top Right corner and click on “Color Analysis Consultations.”
Click on “Book an In-Person Color Analysis Consultation.”
Scroll to the bottom, where you will find Gift Certificates under “Products & Packages.”
We only have Gift Certificates for the full amount of our Full 3-Hour and Mini (60) Color Analysis Consultations at this time.
Did you know that I was a guest on the Wake Up New Bedford Podcast? I talk about my journey from being a fitness professional to talking about how I started the journey as a Color Analyst. My episode is broken into two parts and you can watch and listen to them down below.
I will be O.O.O from 9/27/25 - 10/8/25 for a work/fun-related vacation to Canada and Chicago. Please plan to book your appointments accordingly!
📅 Upcoming Events
Here’s where you can catch me next—and yes, I’m bringing the full-color energy:
Gloria & Co
📍 Marion, MA | 🗓️ October 11th | ⏰ 10AM - 3PM
LA Cycle & Yoga
📍 North Dartmouth, MA | 🗓️ October 18th | ⏰ 8AM -11AM
Westend Grill
📍 New Bedford, MA | 🗓️ October 18th | ⏰ 3PM - 7PM
The Seaport Inn
📍Fairhaven, MA | 🗓️ November 9th | ⏰ 11AM - 4PM
Indy Clover Boutique
📍 Wakefield, MA | 🗓️ November 15th | ⏰ 10AM - 1PM
Community Perk: As part of my vibrant community, you can book a 30-minute Color Analysis Consultation for 20% off with a special discount code “BTD20”—for any of my 30-minute Color Analysis Pop-Ups! Physical Products included in my 3-hour Consultation are not included in my Mini Appointments and can be purchased separately.
Don’t miss your chance to get draped and dazzled at a discount!
Today’s Topic: The Personality Styles // Romantic
Over the next several weeks inside Behind the Drapes, we’re diving deeper into one of my favorite layers of personal style—the energetic code behind how we dress, decorate, and even carry ourselves.
Each of us holds a unique style identity that is deeply rooted in either yin or yang energy. It’s not about gender—it’s about the energetic expression that naturally radiates from you. Your personal style identity is made up of one of six key archetypes: three yin and three yang.
The Yang Energetic Codes:
Dramatic
Aristocrat
Natural
The Yin Energetic Codes:
Classic
Creative
Romantic
Over the next few weeks, we’ll be unpacking these archetypes in more depth. This is something I guide my clients through during a personalized styling consultation (coming October 27th). This week, let’s talk about all things, Romantic Style Personality.
The Romantic
Sensual Grace. Emotional Depth. Timeless Femininity.
The Romantic embodies the lush, receptive beauty of pure Yin energy—soft, enveloping, and emotionally resonant. Where the Classic seeks harmony in structure and the Dramatic finds power in precision, the Romantic enchants through softness, allure, and a deeply felt presence. Their essence is warm and magnetic, exuding a kind of beauty that feels timeless, tender, and profoundly human.
They don’t command attention—they invite it. Gently, irresistibly, and with undeniable charm.
The Physical Form
Romantics often possess a soft, rounded, or delicate appearance that radiates warmth and intimacy. Their features may be full, symmetrical, and curved—suggestive of a gentle elegance rather than striking contrast. There is an innate sensuality to their presence that feels natural and inviting.
Look for: rounded facial features (plump lips, large eyes, soft cheeks), delicate limbs, an hourglass or curvy figure, and a graceful, flowing posture. Movements are often slow, fluid, and emotionally expressive—there’s an ease to the way they inhabit their space, like poetry in motion.
But as always, it’s not about strict physical traits—it’s about energy. The Romantic glows with softness, emotion, and the quiet power of feeling deeply.
Personality Traits
Romantics are deeply attuned, emotionally intelligent, and innately empathetic. They are driven by connection, beauty, and the desire to create comfort and intimacy in their surroundings. Often highly expressive and relational, they bring warmth to everything they touch—from relationships to personal style.
They may shy away from confrontation or harshness, preferring harmony, depth, and emotional resonance. Romantics seek beauty not for status, but as a way of reflecting their inner world—a world rich in feeling, fantasy, and sensitivity.
They wish to be seen as alluring, graceful, and emotionally connected—never hard-edged, always heartfelt.
Style Preferences
Romantics are drawn to softness, sensuality, and timeless elegance. They favor clothing that enhances their natural curves and evokes an emotional response—pieces that feel as beautiful as they look. Their style is a celebration of femininity in all its forms: tender, luxurious, and emotionally rich.
Think draping fabrics, soft silhouettes, vintage glamour, and a palette that flows like a love poem. Everything they wear seems to whisper, rather than shout.
Expect to see:
Curved lines and soft silhouettes – wrap dresses, ruched bodices, bias-cut skirts, peplum tops, and fitted waists
Romantic textures – silk, chiffon, velvet, lace, satin, cashmere, and delicate knits
Delicate details – ruffles, floral embroidery, sweetheart necklines, bows, ruching, or softly draped layers
Signature pieces – feminine dresses, elegant blouses, pearl earrings, antique rings, perfume bottles, delicate heels
Accessories? Intimate and romantic. Think lockets with meaning, silk scarves, vintage hair combs, soft leather clutches, cameo brooches, and heirloom-inspired pieces with sentimental value.
Color palette? Romantic and rich. Romantics gravitate toward warm tones, soft pastels, and elegant neutrals. Think blush pink, cream, rose, burgundy, soft gold, lavender, and champagne—shades that glow on the skin and stir the heart.
A Romantic’s wardrobe is like a love letter—filled with beauty, emotion, and personal meaning. It’s not about following trends or breaking molds, but about embodying softness, sensuality, and timeless grace. They dress not to impress, but to enchant—an outward expression of a deeply felt, emotionally alive inner world.
Home + Environment
Lush Comfort. Sentimental Beauty. Timeless Romance.
A Romantic’s home is a love letter to beauty, comfort, and feeling. It’s not just a place to live—it’s a place to be held. Soft, welcoming, and steeped in emotion, their space is a sanctuary of warmth and tenderness, where every detail invites you to slow down, breathe deeply, and feel.
Whether it’s a candlelit apartment, a flower-filled cottage, or a vintage-inspired bedroom tucked away from the noise, a Romantic’s home wraps you in elegance and intimacy. It doesn’t shout—it sighs. Gently. Sweetly. With heart.
This isn’t about perfection or performance—it’s about presence. Romance. Memory.
The hallmark of a Romantic home? Sensual softness and nostalgic beauty. Everything is chosen for how it makes them feel—cherished, cozy, and emotionally connected. There’s often a dreamy glow to the space, like a painting softened by time.
You’ll see:
Curved furniture — tufted velvet loveseats, antique vanities, or scroll-arm chairs in rose or ivory tones
Plush fabrics — silk curtains, lace-trimmed linens, velvet pillows, cashmere throws, or embroidered tablecloths
Floral patterns — on wallpapers, bedding, upholstery, and artwork—sometimes faded and vintage, sometimes blooming and bold
Romantic lighting — soft-glowing lamps, flickering candles, crystal chandeliers, or string lights wrapped like garlands
Sentimental details — framed love letters, heirloom trinkets, porcelain figurines, dried bouquets, or delicate teacups
A palette of softness — blush pinks, creamy whites, dusty mauves, golds, rosewood, champagne, and faded jewel tones—all flowing together like a whispered melody
The Romantic’s space is deeply personal and emotionally layered. It’s not styled—it’s felt. It doesn’t follow rules; it follows the heart. Even in a small apartment or modest room, they create softness—fresh flowers on the nightstand, a vintage mirror near the window, or a candle flickering beside a favorite book.
There’s always a place to curl up. Always a touch of grace. Always something that tugs gently at the soul.
The Romantic + Pets
Romantics choose pets the way they choose everything—with love, intuition, and a touch of sentimentality. These animals are more than companions—they are soft-hearted soulmates, chosen not for novelty but for connection.
Think:
A gentle cat who curls against your ribs while you read or nap
A lapdog with long ears and kind eyes who follows you from room to room
A pair of doves, or a rabbit with silken fur, nestled among your throw blankets
A rescued senior pet with a story, a soft gaze, and a forever place by your feet
Animals who are adored, pampered, and perhaps a little spoiled—but loved like family
To the Romantic, pets are emotional anchors—living beings who embody love, tenderness, and loyalty. They add warmth and softness to the home, reminding their humans to slow down, to feel, to care.
When the Romantic Doubts Themselves
The inner wound of the Romantic whispers that they are too sensitive, too emotional, too dreamy—or perhaps that their longing for connection and beauty is naïve in a world that often favors logic over feeling.
But their gift is profound: they soften the world.
When a Romantic honors their essence, they become a quiet force of grace—bringing tenderness where there is tension, intimacy where there is distance, and beauty where there is coldness. Their home becomes a haven, their presence a balm.
Their spaces heal.
Their style comforts.
Their way of being reminds us that love is a form of strength, and that beauty is not a luxury—it’s a language of the soul.
And that concludes our beautiful journey through the six energetic style archetypes—the bold clarity of the Yang expressions: Dramatic, Aristocrat, and Natural… and the magnetic softness of the Yin energies: Classic, Creative, and Romantic.
Each one offers its own language of beauty and presence. From the structured elegance of the Classic to the imaginative depth of the Creative, and now, the sensual resonance of the Romantic—we’ve explored how energy, emotion, and aesthetic align to create not just a look, but a way of being.
✨ The Romantic reminds us that softness is not weakness—it’s power in its most magnetic form. Rooted in feeling, beauty, and intimacy, she leads with heart and dresses with soul. A muse to herself and to others.
If you’ve felt drawn to any of these archetypes—or seen yourself in more than one—you’re not alone. Most of us carry a unique blend of energies, and discovering your personal blueprint is about honoring your rhythm, your body, and your truth.
That’s exactly what we’ll explore in my upcoming 1:1 Personal Styling Consultations—opening October 27th. We’ll dive into conversations just like these: your energetic essence, your visual language, and how to bring your internal world into harmony with your outer expression—through clothing, home, and everyday presence.
Until then, Romantics—stay soft. Creatives—stay magic. Classics—stay grounded. Naturals—stay true. Aristocrats—stay elevated. Dramatics—stay bold.
There’s power in every archetype, and your style is not about fitting into a box—it’s about becoming more of yourself.
Stay tuned, and I can’t wait to begin this next chapter with you.
💖 Swatch This/Scratch That
Welcome to Swatch This / Scratch That. Your weekly scroll through the glossy, the gaudy, and everything in between. I’m serving a mood board of what’s in… and what’s getting cut out. Let’s go! This week, I’m syncing with the Romantic Style Personality — both its grounded grace and its shadow-side stagnation.
Swatch This:
Graceful, Not Fragile
You’re not here for trends — you’re here for tenderness.
Color isn’t just beauty, it’s emotion. Texture isn’t just touch, it’s intimacy. You don’t wear clothes — you wear feeling.
You’re not nostalgic to escape the present — you’re nostalgic because you honor what endures. There’s depth in your details. Devotion in your draping. This isn’t decoration. It’s devotion.
Dress Like a Love Letter, Live Like a Lullaby
For you, getting dressed is an act of romance — not just with others, but with life itself.
You don’t “put on” clothes — you adorn. A ribbon here, a ruffle there, maybe a vintage silk blouse that holds a thousand quiet secrets.
You don’t follow fashion — you follow feeling. You don’t chase attention — you embody allure.
Your style isn’t loud — but it lingers. Gently. Powerfully.
Let Lace Whisper. Let Silk Sway. Let Emotion Lead.
You’re not about making statements — you’re about leaving impressions. Your home, your wardrobe, your life? All love letters written in scent, softness, and sighs.
You move from feeling, not force.
You don’t ask, “Is this on-trend?”
You ask, “Does this feel like love today?”
Because you’re not here to be impressive. You’re here to be unforgettable.
Scratch That:
Lose the Labels
The invitation? Un-label. Un-guard. Un-fold.
You’re not one note — you’re a symphony.
You don’t have a “wardrobe strategy” — you have a love story in motion.
Let yourself change. Let your style surprise even you. You don’t need to refine your identity to be worthy.
You just need to follow what feels tender, real, and resonant — right now.
The Beautiful Blur
Romance craves beauty — but watch when beauty becomes a blur.
When longing turns to indecision, and the wardrobe becomes a museum of past versions of yourself.
When the softness becomes stagnation. When your signature style gets lost in the fog of what once felt like you.
Too many almosts can muffle your magic.
You’re not here to dress like every romantic heroine or vintage muse you admire.
You’re here to dress like you — soulful, evolving, wholeheartedly alive.
Adorn Without Apology
You’re not a fantasy — you’re a feeling. And feelings are meant to be felt.
You don’t need permission to wear florals in the fall, or pair lace with leather, or turn a rainy day into a velvet opera.
You are allowed to be soft and strong. Dreamy and grounded. Sentimental and sovereign.
Your power isn’t in perfection — it’s in your presence.
So tie the ribbon. Wear the perfume. Let your outfit sigh, sparkle, and speak.
You don’t need to harden your edges to be taken seriously.
Because in a world that glorifies sharpness and speed, the most radical thing you can be…
is soft without apology.
🎨 The Color Connection
I’m bringing The Color Connection back—bigger, better, and more tailored than ever. Formerly a general guide on color theory and branding, this section now dives deeper into specific brands and how their products align with seasonal color analysis. Whether you're a True Autumn or a Cool Summer, I’ll help you discover the clothing, makeup, and accessories that work with your season, not against them.
From curated brand breakdowns to seasonal must-haves, think of this as your personalized style compass—no guesswork, just great finds.
You’ll also be able to shop everything directly through my ShopMy Storefront. Let’s make color work for you.
A quick note before we get started: This guide is based solely on what’s available through the brand’s website and my personal understanding of seasonal color theory. Keep in mind that product photos can be edited and may not always reflect the true color in person. For the most accurate match, always refer back to your swatch wallet when making final decisions.
Also, you may notice that some seasons receive more attention than others, or that only neutrals were available for certain palettes in the ShopMy Storefront. This simply reflects the brand’s current offerings — not an intentional omission on my part. With all that said, let’s begin with our first brand!
This week, we’re diving into Alo Yoga. I’m breaking down which shades, styles, and staples from the brand work best for each season. Think of this as your go-to guide for making smarter, more flattering style choices without the overwhelm. I’m only showing one option for each of the 16 seasons but there are more options for you on my ShopMy!
🍃 SPRING – Fresh, Radiant, Uplifting
🍁 AUTUMN – Rich, Earthy, Grounded
🌊 SUMMER – Cool, Calm, Romantic
❄️ WINTER – Bold, Crisp, Dynamic
☀️ WARM – Radiant, Rich, Inviting.
🌊 COOL – Elegant, Fresh, Refined.
🌑 DEEP – Intense, Powerful, Grounded
☁️ LIGHT – Airy, Delicate, Soft
⚡ BRIGHT – Vivid, Energetic, Playful
🌫️ MUTED – Subtle, Calm, Understated
💸 Discount of the Week
We’re pressing pause on our weekly discount offerings as we prepare to launch something even more exciting—our Signature Style Packages (coming soon 👀).
So if you’ve been waiting for the right moment to refresh your palette or reconnect with your personal aesthetic—this is it.
Step into the season with intention. Let your style speak before you say a word.
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💌 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going
Thanks for spending time Behind The Drapes. I’ve got so much more in store, and I want your input! Do you have a burning-style question? A favorite color combo? A topic you’d love me to cover next? Email me your ideas at info@myauthenticcolors.com—I’m all ears (and full spectrum lighting).
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Until next time, keep shining in your authentic colors. 🌈
With color and care,
Mac Carvalho
CEO, My Authentic Colors
